“Even when the mood is right / If repeated, it can be bad / They will wonder if to say it twice / They will ask if your love is blind”. These are the lyrics of a lesser-known Swedish pop-rock song from the 2000s, which talks about love and declarations of love. Even though it might seem counterintuitive, saying “I love you” too many times won’t have the expected result. No matter how sincere you are when saying it and how certain you are about your feelings, it won’t be more appreciated than saying it less often.
Why, you might ask yourself? Well, first of all, because a thing you hear too often doesn’t surprise you anymore, it becomes common and less desired. Secondly because if you hear it every time, without doing anything special, you will start to take his or her love for granted, and stop fighting for it. Saying “I love you” shouldn’t be a reminder of your feelings or a previous declaration, but an exclamation of joy and surprise when he or she does something that melts your soul.
So what is the connection with online modeling jobs? The same principle applies: too good seems to be the enemy of good. When you talk to your members, you should be open, but not too open, sincere, but not too sincere, fun, but not too much fun, and direct, but not too direct. Too many young women working in non-adult online modeling jobs tend to impress their members to get more money from them, just like your new boyfriend would overwhelm you with romantic words and gestures, so you make sure of his feelings.
However, all human relationships, whether we are talking about new couples or online modeling jobs, work under the same principle: action and reaction. No matter the situation you find yourself in, you have to make sure that what you invest is almost equal to what you get out of it. Otherwise, things could get a little frustrating. For example, if you are nice to your members and they pay more to see you or enjoy more and more private sessions with you, you can be sure the bond between you too is strengthening.
Similarly, if instead of telling your girlfriend that you love her all the time, you bake some cookies for her and she eats them with a large smile on her face, we have news for you: you are in a good place! Life is not maths, where two positives always add up to a positive, and where good intentions always end up in a good outcome. Life is a delicate balance between what you should do and what you feel like doing or saying, and so are online modeling jobs. In both cases, if you are yourself and always do what you think it’s right, the person in front of you (or the member in front of the webcam) will notice it and reward your efforts.
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